We are all human beings from different
races and backgrounds, and when two people come together to share love, the
first experience is termed as the best. But with time, as it grows their
attitudes determine whether they will be together forever or separate in the
long run.
Have you ever got to a point in your
relationship where you felt like giving up? Living a solitude life? Or you’re
thinking why so much happens to you where you gave in too much and never
received anything good in return? You get to only feel the love of your partner
during anniversaries, because it’s a routine that has to be remembered .But
then you decide to create a survival environment where you alone knows about
it.
Allow me use the term survival, that is
often used in dying relationships or among broken hearts that can’t let go
where they feel they are not wanted. People tend to survive in different ways
when it comes to relationships: Some people survive and can’t talk about it,
some survive and go silent and some survive and create a new beginning. I
believe everyone deals with unimaginable pain in their own way, and everyone is
entitled to that without judgement.
I have been observing since the day I
started the relationship stage, watching my friends, close relatives and let me
not leave myself behind because in my own way I once survived with love issues.
What I have learnt is the magic is not in getting into a relationship, the
magic is in staying in it. Even with its strength, flaws and weaknesses you
still cope with each other not by surviving but by understanding each other in
the best ways possible.
The reasons for creating a survival
environment are not between two imperfect couples that are so perfect but it is
in engaging into a relationship with different reasons which can be:
• To fit in the relationship age gap; one
has to force a serious relationship at a specific age due to desperation.
• For consolation purpose either from a
heartbreak which is one main thing people tend to implement in their lives
today.
• The “I feel so empty” a statement used by
many that make them end up accepting anyone flirting with them at that moment
of their crisis.
I will not explain deeply into these main
reasons but I wish to ask you a few questions, don’t you want to feel real love
within you? Do you want to be respected even with your flaws? Do you want to
feel wanted but that special being in your life? And when you get the answers
as they cross through the back of your mind no matter how long it takes I hope
and pray that one day you will make a choice to be patient and wait for real
and true love to come your way.
So the next time you look at someone’s life
covetously, remember you may not want to endure what they are enduring right
now. They sit so quietly before you looking like a calm ocean on a sunny day
smiling and telling you their happy moments with their partner and you feel so
empty because you don’t
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